BY Grace Zigah
A storm of controversy has engulfed the marriage between Ghanaian media personality Afua Asantewaa and her husband Kofi Owusu Aduonum, following her public admission that the two are currently separated.
What began as a candid disclosure during a TikTok Live session has now spiralled into a heated public debate, with accusations of ingratitude, counterclaims from family members, and intense scrutiny over their life abroad.
From Humble Beginnings To Public Spotlight
Afua Asantewaa and Kofi Owusu Aduonum’s relationship dates back to 2012, long before she became a household name.
Their union, according to accounts widely shared online, was built during a period of struggle, with Aduonum reportedly playing a significant role in supporting her ambitions and personal growth.
As a seasoned journalist with over three decades of experience, Kofi Aduonum, the immediate past Sports Editor of Daily Guide is said to have provided both emotional and financial backing in the early stages of their marriage, helping stabilize their home while Afua Asantewaa pursued opportunities in media and entrepreneurship.
Their bond gained national admiration in 2023 when Asantewaa embarked on her first Guinness World Record sing-a-thon attempt.
During that period, Kofi Aduonum was visibly present, publicly expressing pride in his wife and standing by her throughout the physically and emotionally demanding challenge.
Cracks Beneath The Spotlight
Despite their seemingly strong public image, cracks in the relationship began to emerge after her second sing-a-thon attempt in 2024. Observers noted a shift in tone, particularly through Asantewaa’s cryptic social media posts, which hinted at underlying tension within the marriage.
The situation came to a head on April 2, 2026, when Afua Asantewaa used a TikTok Live session to openly discuss the challenges she faced in her marriage. Central to her concerns was what she described as her husband’s silence during moments of public criticism.
She revealed that although Kofi Aduonum once publicly praised her during the sing-a-thon, he had “never come out to defend” her during difficult periods, leaving her feeling isolated.
Her remarks painted a picture of emotional disconnect, suggesting that beyond the public displays of support, she lacked consistent private and public reassurance from her partner.
“Ungrateful” Narrative Gains Momentum
Following her comments, a section of the public quickly turned against Afua Asantewaa, branding her “ungrateful” and accusing her of disregarding years of support from her husband.
Critics argue that Kofi Aduonum stood by her during her lowest moments and contributed significantly to her rise, only to be publicly criticised once she gained fame and relocated abroad.
This narrative has been amplified by social media users who claim that Afua Asantewaa’s current lifestyle outside Ghana may have influenced her perspective on the marriage.
According to these voices, exposure to a different environment and independence abroad may have contributed to the breakdown of the relationship.
Brother-in-Law’s Version Deepens Controversy
The controversy took another twist after a man identified as Aduonum’s brother reportedly weighed in on the matter, offering a contrasting version of events.
According to circulating accounts, the brother-in-law defended Kofi Aduonum, insisting that he had been a pillar of support throughout the marriage and suggesting that the public was only hearing one side of the story.
He further implied that the sacrifices made by Kofi Aduonum were being overlooked in the current narrative.
These claims have added fuel to the ongoing debate, deepening divisions among followers of the story.
Social Media Reactions Split
The unfolding drama has triggered widespread reactions across platforms such as TikTok, Facebook, and X (formerly Twitter).
While some users sympathise with Asantewaa, arguing that emotional neglect in a relationship can be just as significant as financial support, others have criticised her decision to air private marital issues in public.
Another group has taken a more neutral stance, urging both parties to resolve their differences privately, especially given their status as public figures.
Clarification: Separation, Not Divorce
Amid the speculation, Afua Asantewaa has clarified that her marriage has not officially ended. During a separate TikTok Live conversation, she stressed that she and Kofi Aduonum are “separated, not divorced,” pushing back against widespread claims that their union had completely collapsed.
She also addressed perceptions about outspoken women in relationships, suggesting that public personalities are often misunderstood and unfairly blamed when issues arise.
